I'm really such a pluperfect chicken. I am a smart mouth and I can say mean things, low and cutting things. I was charged with a responsibility to my baby brother and sister and I didn't have any choice. I fought back and fought so hard for them becos that is what my family expected of me. The good news is I'm only slightly brittle, slightly stand offish. This part of my nature causes people to stand back from me and be hesitant to approach me. They don't see the little scared girl in the scared woman. They only see the parts that spit and scratch. Makes for some strange waltzs in the doings in life. But thanks for letting me say and still talking to me. You are a strange and fine human, enjoyable on many levels!